Love & Hate

Love, is it anything more than chemical reactions within your brain? To be honest I do not know, but it is my opinion that you love someone for who they are, the good and bad qualities, no matter what they do. I cannot explain how you can love someone unconditionally if it is just caused by a chemical because I do not understand myself, but love is necessary in everyone's lives if we are to live healthily, we need the love of our mothers, of our fathers, of our brothers and sisters, of our friends and of our fellow human beings, but this will never happen.

Because there are to many people in this world who have done too many terrible things, rape murder, kidnapping. The people who commit these crimes may love them, but that is not the love I speak of, I speak of the love between a pair, a mother and her child, a pair of brothers or a man and his lover. This is the love I speak of, and it is unconditional.

And there is no such thing as love at first sight, to love someone you must know them, you cannot know someone by one glance, you can feel lust for someone at first sight but that is not love.

And you cannot have love without a contrasting emotion or feeling, hate. People use the word hat way too much in this day and age, you can dislike someone easily enough, but hate is a very strong term and must be taken seriously.

Love and hate can both melt away over time and reveal a different disposition for the subject, you can love someone at first and then end up hating them, you could hate someone and end up realising you love to hate them thus loving who they are so you can hate them.

So before you say that you love or hate someone, just think are you ready to commit to it.

Demosthenes